After many hours of searching he's at least one provider that seems to be able to handle the crap official stat code that EA has in this game: Trinitygames.net

Here's IP's for some of the servers they run:

OBC: 70.84.158.248
MOJO DOJO: 70.85.232.142
FREAKSHOW: 70.85.232.142
EA OFFICIAL: 70.85.235.15
COUNTER-INTEL: 70.85.232.139
ECW LADDER SERVER: 70.85.234.205

All of those servers are on port 16567.

Other things to look for:
1) 32 players or less. I haven't found a single 64 player server that stays lag free for very long.
2) No VoIP. Almost all of the ones that were playing lag-free did NOT have it enabled. We all use TS anyway.
3) And of course myself, malthus, and dakota. We've been spending far too much time searching for playable servers :)

Try 72.9.229.240:16567 this is our ranked server on a 100Mb burstable connection, no lag as of yet, I am gonna launch another tonight cause we can't get our players on, it's always full

Yah those worked out well the other night. I'll be sure to try out the server when I get back from vacation (I'm typing this from my hotel in Monterey, CA :) ). Maybe the new video card thats waiting at home for me will help too!

All of the Trinity Servers are pretty good, I have also noticed if you look for servers that do not have VOIP they work a lot better. Considering we have TS it should be ok to join a server that doesn have VOIP.

:lol: When I first read that I thought it said any server that doesnt have Void on it.

No love for the Void